Ex is dating


13-Jun-2016 02:26

This rule is almost never stated or enforced among queer communities.

If you're gay, you will almost inevitably date a friend's ex at some point.

Lots of people have told me unequivocally that they would never date a friend's ex.

They wholeheartedly believe that it's wrong, disrespectful, and if a friend did that to them, they'd never talk to that person again.

My ex broke up with me last month after being together for over a year.

The last few months were rough because his grandmother passed away after being in the hospital for a few months.

I tried to be there for him but he totally withdrew and would reject my advances and we started fighting a lot because of it.

They believe this is something everybody knows, that they're just following the rules.

What I've noticed, though, is that every person I've heard espouse this worldview was straight. Just as you deserve to heal and move on, so does your ex. Avoid Being Each Other’s Crutch You loved, you lost, you’re now in mourning. If your ex calls, emails, texts, or stops by seeking comfort for his broken heart? Instead, kindly but firmly let him know that you are no longer his go-to support system.



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